Core Belief Engineering is the gold’s gym of personal transformation.
Endorsement by the creator and founder of Core Belief Engineering
As her teacher, mentor and, more importantly, her colleague, I have known Lisa since 1995 and have enjoyed my association with her ever since. I have seen her work steadfastly on herself to eliminate limitations and expand on her talent and potential. Her achievements have been many and are still continuing. I’m proud of her for choosing to attain Master Practitioner standing and I admire her ever growing competence, compassion and devotion to help people effectively. An excellent teacher and inspiration to her students and clients, Lisa is a strong and sensitive leader who walks her talk and walks with the giants. If you are lucky enough to know and work with Lisa, you will see amazing return on your investment in yourself.
Until I met Lisa, I was completely submerged in old beliefs about myself, other people and every relationship I’ve ever had. Self-defeating scripts constantly controlled my mind. Core Belief Engineering is changing my life on a daily basis. Lisa’s unique form of counselling and intuitive guidance has taught me the direct connection between subconscious beliefs and childhood trauma.
Lisa’s warm, engaging and truly compassionate personality make all our sessions extremely meaningful and I feel like we have built a wonderful connection. Lisa provides an environment that is always safe to open up and makes it easy to share and be vulnerable. She’s had an enormous impact on my healing journey and she always provides me with the hope that these outdated, subconscious patterns & beliefs can be transcended into something positive and fulfilling.
The biggest lesson Lisa has taught me is that the “parts” who have sabotaged my life in the past are not who I truly am. They were merely coping strategies, albeit unhealthy, to merely survive an extremely traumatic childhood.
Lisa has given me the greatest gift of all. Myself. Exactly who I was created to be and who I am meant to become.
The world is smiling back at me…
There’s definitely been a major shift! People are smiling and coming to me now. I don’t feel caught up in “Other people are better than me” anymore. What other people think has nothing to do with me. Now I can just live my life. I’m enveloped in calm and acceptance. The disaster scenario thinking is gone. My hearts is so much more open to happiness than before. I feel lightness and confidence in my body. More self-love and more value in myself.
The self-loathing is gone! Now I feel that I am okay. I’m not so dependent on other people. I still do everything to the best of my ability. Sometimes it doesn’t work out, and that’s okay. It doesn’t change the fact that I am okay. That’s a huge deal for me.
I am giving myself more permission to be more intelligent and talented now. I am so much more Conscious! I’m feeling much more wise. I’ve been standing up more for myself. I’m not sacrificing my self-responsibility to please others anymore.
I feel subtle but profound changes. I’m like a flower opening. It’s been lovely and wonderful.
I am a 27 year-old dental hygienist who felt 87 years-old. I was living with constant self-doubt and afraid to do everything. I worried 75% of every day. I was never happy because I was always needing somebody else’s approval for decisions and hoped my mom or somebody would take care of things for me. I was too scared to go out and get my independence but I wanted it. I had no confidence to even go into Tim Horton’s to get a coffee for myself!
If someone would reject me in some way, I would be consumed by it for a week or longer. It’s like I would dive into a pit of negativity, worry, self-doubt, and I’d just beat myself up over and over. I would get sick all the time. I had stomach problems from all of the stress. I was always over-analysing things and feeling small and powerless.
I had no confidence at work. I would worry about work on Sunday and then I would recap every day and beat myself up about what I should have done or not done the previous day. I was afraid of confrontation in general and tried to do everything to avoid it. I was always focused on the negative. I was always thinking my patients hated me. I had so much stress and anger and annoyance that I would bitch and complain all the time. I was drained and tired all the time.
I decided to work with Lisa because basically, I wanted to be the opposite of how I was. We did two sessions – one 5.5 hours and the other 6.5 hours. All of my stuff was interconnected. It all went together, like different branches on one tree. So we were able to address all of the ways I was held back quite quickly. I liked that. I thought it would take forever!
Working with Lisa with CBE has been extremely helpful. The real me is here. I’m calmer, not fearful at all. I’m more positive and my moods are more even. I’m more comfortable in my skin and in the world. And I’m having a ton of fun! I’m actually going to get togethers and parties and enjoying myself! Before, when my fiancée, Tom, would go out, I would be afraid and lost. Now I’ve been doing my own thing. I’ve been going shopping, seeing my friends more, and going to get a coffee and a donut! I actually do that with confidence now! I also left Tom at a party when I wanted to leave, instead of being bored and waiting for him and then being mad at him later. This felt so good for both of us!
I now feel that I’m worth having happiness and peacefulness. And I’m living my life by my own authority. I asked my mom to stop doing everything for me and she stopped! I’m being a more confident, assertive, decisive person with my life. I’m not afraid to use my smarts. I’m comfortable with the decisions I make. Things in general are not as bothersome to me anymore. This is liberation! I’m not overanalyzing as much and I feel in control of myself.
I also now really get that the things that are out of my control are not my fault. I just go to work and do the best job I can do and if someone’s unhappy, they’re unhappy. That’s okay. It’s not life and death anymore. The other day I had a jerk patient but I didn’t bend over backwards to please him. And I didn’t hold onto it afterwards. I let it go. I actually have more of a sense of humour about it all.
I’ve stopped the recapping. Now I live day to day and have more clearness in my head. I’ve stopped myself from complaining and being negative, and I’m getting lots of positive feedback from everyone. These are really big changes for me and I am thrilled.
Before working with Lisa, I was filled with worry and totally focused on external validation. My mom drilled it in my head that I was no good, and I believed her. I was constantly worried about whether other people liked me. It was controlling my life. In college, my first priority was gaining other people’s validation, so I underachieved and felt really guilty about that. It was a terrible cycle. I always tried to get my mother to see I was good by doing everything at home. I took over my father’s role when he left and basically exhausted myself. And I had been exhausting myself running after something I could never get every day since then. I wanted to be perfect and I would always ask myself, “Am I doing the right thing? Will this be well-viewed by my friends? Society?” I was totally caught up in that. I wasn’t living my life. Saying I was stuck is an understatement.
I went to see Lisa because I wanted to be fully confident. I wanted to pursue my interests full throttle ahead. I knew my stuckness was a product of my upbringing and I hadn’t been able to get unstuck on my own.
It took only two sessions to get me totally unblocked. I want people to know that when you go from feeling like garbage to knowing you are worth something, that’s huge! My self-doubt is completely gone. I feel good about myself now. I feel worthy. This has changed my personal efficiency. I used to be so stressed about my workload. I was trying to be superman. Now I’m working within my limits, knowing I can’t do everything, and I’m getting more done! I have more energy. I’m more positive and more secure within myself. More positive thoughts float through my head now. It’s like the positive is feeding itself now. I’m more comfortable with my friends, and I don’t have to put up a front with my boss anymore. My entire quest for external validation is completely gone. My sense of self is better and stronger, and I feel more control and more relaxed. Lisa, I feel that our sessions have unconcealed a new road map, paving the way to a new highway where I can drive full throttle, full speed ahead into the sunset. Thank you!
Working with Lisa had changed my life in a more profound way than I was capable of imagining before I started working with her. As a survivor of childhood emotional abuse, I didn’t even realize the extent of the damage. I came to Lisa because I wanted to be the best, healthiest version of myself and when I started working with Lisa, I was stuck in patterns I didn’t completely understand ( including social anxiety, anxiety in general, relationship patterns, issues with self worth and self esteem, and depression). With all my trust issues, Lisa earned my trust quickly with her warmth and keen ability to understand. With compassion, understanding, and a whole lot of patience, Lisa taught me the basics of a healthy mind, healthy communication skills, helped me grieve my losses, and taught me what constitutes healthy boundaries and guided me to look inside for the answers and understanding I needed for myself. Lisa not only helped me through my issues, she put her heart and soul into my work and put the emotional energy in to understand all of me. After a little over 2 years of working with Lisa, I have matured many emotional years. I now live a more conscious life and it’s more freeing than I could have ever imagined. Lisa helped me find my self worth and heal the emotional wounds. I am now a strong, emotionally independent person with confidence, peace of mind and healthy and true relationships in a way that I never imagined was possible. I will forever be grateful to Lisa and the safe space she let me heal in.
This is the laundry list I gave Lisa to work with: a deeply engrained pattern of hating myself manifesting in inferiority, feeling like a failure, intense self-criticism and self-doubt, bouts of feeling really low, worry, anxiety, massive people pleasing, needing external approval, and basically being a doormat. I hated myself. I was constantly struggling with myself.
Lisa and I worked with three parts of me who were doing their best to protect me from the abuse I grew up with. The process was amazing. I felt alert, aware, rejuvenated, and great after the session, which was six weeks ago. And the changes I’ve achieved have been life altering. I now know myself and love myself wholeheartedly and know that I’m a noble being.
Specifics? I am feeling more resilient inside. My self-talk has changed. It’s not negative anymore. No more self-bullying. I feel like a friend inside. I can feel inner strength, and I don’t get uptight anymore. No more racing heart or palpitations. Sleep is not an escape for me anymore. The anger and rage I was carrying is gone. Now when I get angry, it’s clear, present, and clean anger. It’s not laced with anything. I have a voice now. I’ve actually been talking more and writing. My voice has been released and this feels great. I am not conforming to people anymore. The people pleasing has stopped. I feel that I have a much more well-ordered mind. I don’t feel suppressed. My Conscious Mind is directing my show now. I feel in control and empowered. I am taking care of myself and nurturing myself – something I’ve never done. I am also enjoying listening to my inner voice. It’s just incredible! These changes have given me the ability to walk on the earth the way I was intended to.
Bless you, Lisa, for your love, compassion, and your tremendous skill with Core Belief Engineering.
Thank you, Lisa, so much! You helped me changed my life! I have stopped obsessing with the past and I am a lot lighter overall. I feel more freedom. Other people are more attracted to me. I’ve received a lot of compliments from people. I’m more at peace with myself. That is the greatest gift and I guess it shows – even to strangers! I can now invite other people’s feedback and listen to it and learn from it. This is great! I feel so much better about myself because improving my communication has been a goal of mine forever. I feel powerful as a person now. I’m much more positive, and I feel deserving now. I’m so pleased and so grateful to you Lisa for this really important work!
Before working with Lisa and having my eyes opened from the inside, I thought I was in love with a man who told me repeatedly that he wouldn’t leave his wife. I tried to control him and manipulate him to want me. I needed to be loved at all costs. I was totally compromising myself and my ideals and values to be loved.
My self-betrayal was making me sick. I knew I was in a self-made prison and I knew I had the key, but I could not let myself out. I asked Lisa to help me get my actions to follow my values. I wanted to feel responsible for my own feelings and for making myself feel safe and happy. I wanted to set clear boundaries on what I will accept and not, and stick by them.
The result of working with Lisa for 5.5 hours? I left him. I’m never going to allow anyone to use or manipulate me again. I know my worth now. I am free. I’ve also noticed that I’m not using laughter as a defense mechanism anymore. It’s not needed. It’s okay for me to be serious or neutral or whatever. It’s okay to be myself because I am ok. This feels really good. I feel important to myself now. I have my humanity and my self-respect back.