The issues I can help you resolve

“ I feel stuck” is the #1 reason people reach out to me. Stuckness has many forms:

  • Are your insecurities holding you back?
  • Do you want to stop being so hard on yourself and others?
  • Are you always antsy and on edge, feeling you have to do to receive love?
  • Do you want to be emotionally okay when your parents die?
  • Do you want a relationship but won’t let anyone close? Are there walls around your heart?
  • Are your emotions are getting the better of you? Do you want to regain control of yourself and your life?
  • Do you feel like you are turning into your mother? Father? Both at times?
  • Is your inability to let go of things eating away at you? Do you want to stop stewing in blame and resentment?
  • Are you looking for peace of mind from constant worry, fear, nervousness, guilt, shame, self-doubt, second-guessing, or self-criticism?
  • Are you unable to stop your irrational and/or exaggerated reactions once triggered?
  • Do you know you’re good and a loving person but inside feel unlovable, unworthy, and not good enough?
  • Do you attract unhealthy relationships and impossible situations?
  • Are you imprisoned by habitual, repetitive behaviours?
  • Are you eternally busy and emotionally unavailable?
  • Despite evidence to the contrary, do you feel unattractive as a potential mate?
  • Are you blocked creatively?
  • Do you fear commitment? Intimacy? Love? Getting hurt?
  • Do you fear rejection and abandonment?
  • Are your unrealistic expectations constantly making you disappointed and miserable?
  • Do you have a lot of pent up stress, anger, resentment, sorrow, grief, shame, or guilt?
  • Do you get stuck in the paralysis of over-analysis or constant worry?
  • Do you feel powerless in the pit of your stomach, constantly second-guessing and doubting yourself?
  • Do you want to solve your emotional, communication, and sexual barriers and improve your relationship with your partner?
  • Do you want to be free of your fears?
  • Do people say you’re angry all the time? Do you want to fix this?
  • Do you want to stop being emotionally needy and desperate?
  • Do you want to stop feeling victimized and defensive?
  • Do you feel inferior to other people?
  • Do you want to get over the effects of being bullied as a kid?
  • Does your anger scare others? Do you want to get to the root of it and return it to a healthy emotion?
  • Do you want to stop internalizing everything?
  • Do you want to grow up emotionally and be an adult?
  • Are you are in recovery from addiction? Do you have a handle on things but your feelings are still there at the core?
  • Is self-sabotage your constant companion?
  • Do you fear failure? Success? Both?
  • Do you want an adult relationship with your parents?
  • Do you lose your temper too quickly and too often?
  • Do you feel you’re being run by your parents’ core beliefs?
  • Is your perfectionism making it impossible to be satisfied with anyone or anything?
  • Are you caught in the web of procrastination?
  • Have you lost your motivation? Your mojo?
  • Do you suffer from indecisiveness? Too afraid to make the wrong decision?
  • Do you feel like an imposter and fear being exposed as a fraud?
  • Do you need to be in control to feel secure?
  • Do you feel shut down emotionally? Sexually? Spiritually?
  • Secretly inside, do you live in fear, not really trusting anyone?
  • Do you take everything personally and see rejection everywhere?
  • Do you create drama to add intensity and spice to your life?
  • Do you suffer from phobias? Irrational fears?
  • Do you chronically rescue people? Or do you please and please, inevitably feeling resentful and overwhelmed?
  • Do you feel like a victim? Do you frequently feel self-pity?
  • Do you get caught in the undertow of sadness or loneliness?
  • Do you worry that other people will see the insecurities you’re so desperately trying to hide?
  • Are you existing only from the neck up, disconnected from your emotions and your body? Or are you feeling emotionally out of control and over-reactive?
  • Are you constantly needing to numb out, distract from, and escape the pain of your life?
  • Does your fear of confrontation or rejection prevent you from speaking clearly, stating boundaries, getting your needs met, or standing up for yourself?
  • Do you undervalue yourself and overvalue others?
  • Do guilt and shame rule your life?
  • Insert your issue here ________________________________________

If you resonate with any of these issues, there’s hope. I view all of these issues as symptoms of underlying counter-productive core belief systems that can be transformed with Core Belief Engineering. Everyone has issues. I can help you resolve yours.

“Just as the body was designed to heal, I believe that the mind is also designed to heal. When given the right approach in a conducive, loving, safe, non-judgmental environment, the mind will welcome the opportunity to do so.”

Lisa Sidorowicz

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