The issues I can help you resolve

“ I feel stuck” is the #1 reason people reach out to me. Stuckness has many forms:

• Are your insecurities holding you back?
• Do you want to stop being so hard on yourself and others?
• Are you always antsy and on edge, feeling you have to do to receive love?
• Do you want to be emotionally okay when your parents die?
• Do you want a relationship but won’t let anyone close? Are there walls around your heart?
• Are your emotions are getting the better of you? Do you want to regain control of yourself and your life?
• Do you feel like you are turning into your mother? Father? Both at times?
• Is your inability to let go of things eating away at you? Do you want to stop stewing in blame and resentment?
• Are you looking for peace of mind from constant worry, fear, nervousness, guilt, shame, self-doubt, second-guessing, or self-criticism?
• Are you unable to stop your irrational and/or exaggerated reactions once triggered?
• Do you know you’re good and a loving person but inside feel unlovable, unworthy, and not good enough?
• Do you attract unhealthy relationships and impossible situations?
• Are you imprisoned by habitual, repetitive behaviours?
• Are you eternally busy and emotionally unavailable?
• Despite evidence to the contrary, do you feel unattractive as a potential mate?
• Are you blocked creatively?
• Do you fear commitment? Intimacy? Love? Getting hurt?
• Do you fear rejection and abandonment?
• Are your unrealistic expectations constantly making you disappointed and miserable?
• Do you have a lot of pent up stress, anger, resentment, sorrow, grief, shame, or guilt?
• Do you get stuck in the paralysis of over-analysis or constant worry?
• Do you feel powerless in the pit of your stomach, constantly second-guessing and doubting yourself?
• Do you want to solve your emotional, communication, and sexual barriers and improve your relationship with your partner?
• Do you want to be free of your fears?
• Do people say you’re angry all the time? Do you want to fix this?
• Do you want to stop being emotionally needy and desperate?
• Do you want to stop feeling victimized and defensive?
• Do you feel inferior to other people?
• Do you want to get over the effects of being bullied as a kid?
• Does your anger scare others? Do you want to get to the root of it and return it to a healthy emotion?
• Do you want to stop internalizing everything?
• Do you want to grow up emotionally and be an adult?
• Are you are in recovery from addiction? Do you have a handle on things but your feelings are still there at the core?
• Is self-sabotage your constant companion?
• Do you fear failure? Success? Both?
• Do you want an adult relationship with your parents?
• Do you lose your temper too quickly and too often?
• Do you feel you’re being run by your parents’ core beliefs?
• Is your perfectionism making it impossible to be satisfied with anyone or anything?
• Are you caught in the web of procrastination?
• Have you lost your motivation? Your mojo?
• Do you suffer from indecisiveness? Too afraid to make the wrong decision?
• Do you feel like an imposter and fear being exposed as a fraud?
• Do you need to be in control to feel secure?
• Do you feel shut down emotionally? Sexually? Spiritually?
• Secretly inside, do you live in fear, not really trusting anyone?
• Do you take everything personally and see rejection everywhere?
• Do you create drama to add intensity and spice to your life?
• Do you suffer from phobias? Irrational fears?
• Do you chronically rescue people? Or do you please and please, inevitably feeling resentful and overwhelmed?
• Do you feel like a victim? Do you frequently feel self-pity?
• Do you get caught in the undertow of sadness or loneliness?
• Do you worry that other people will see the insecurities you’re so desperately trying to hide?
• Are you existing only from the neck up, disconnected from your emotions and your body? Or are you feeling emotionally out of control and over-reactive?
• Are you constantly needing to numb out, distract from, and escape the pain of your life?
• Does your fear of confrontation or rejection prevent you from speaking clearly, stating boundaries, getting your needs met, or standing up for yourself?
• Do you undervalue yourself and overvalue others?
• Do guilt and shame rule your life?
• Insert your issue here ________________________________________

If you resonate with any of these issues, there’s hope. I view all of these issues as symptoms of underlying counter-productive core belief systems that can be transformed with Core Belief Engineering. Everyone has issues. I can help you resolve yours.